Loneliness

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    Kurzgesagt – In a NutshellKurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

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    Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors - and that our modern world can turn it into something that really hurts us. Why do we feel this way and what can we do about it?
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    'Loneliness' by John Cacioppo & William Patrick
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Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell
Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

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Baker Family
Baker Family

If you’re seeing this, Jesus is the answer for you!

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Insane arbiter
Insane arbiter

Thanks for the quality content

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B H
B H

Men need to value their loneliness becuase majority of the population doesn't care about men's well being in General. Going your own way is the answer to save men from the gynoncentric shithole that males live on.

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Damian Cruz
Damian Cruz

In case you created this video because you felt alone, I am here if you need to talk

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QuickPro Studios
QuickPro Studios

Amazing vid, as always! I love this calm piano music.

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christianne delos santos
christianne delos santos

5:26 well damn, I gotta stop being lonely.

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Catch My Drift
Catch My Drift

You reading this..... Nothing is wrong with you. You know what worked for me? Light exercise, setting 3 months goals and good food (healthy). And try CBD oil....trust me. I'm better now

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Lake Show
Lake Show

Thankfully life is short

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LadyT
LadyT

It isn't good health mentally or emotionally to be alone all the time. People can die of loneliness. I plan to get a car soon and take senior ladies I know places. Offer to help someone, do something nice for someone, no more lonely!

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evenmorenonsense
evenmorenonsense

"We're living in the most connected time in human history and yet we feel isolated" They said this back in 1996 right around the time the internet got big. Think about that!

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Etwin Luna
Etwin Luna

Anyone else is lonely 😞

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Tricia Martii
Tricia Martii

See I told you mom. Being “emo” was not a phase

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repoilify
repoilify

Fuck.

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Aaliyah C
Aaliyah C

His voice made me sleepy lol😂 *in a good way*

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dan frees
dan frees

The fact the video is #1 trending says a lot.

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Unknown Person online
Unknown Person online

I’m always lonely haha..... Yea I am... I HATE MY LIFE 🙃😖😔

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Aaron Moore
Aaron Moore

thank you.

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meschell waller
meschell waller

This feeling all to familiar 😔

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PantingCat
PantingCat

What a beautifully poignant video. Thank you for helping me realize what I am doing to myself.

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Ðamoj Il
Ðamoj Il

Aghud irë nachu giol bhocaillí par ihł ići inë lahú níl cara'i

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Georgina Bernal
Georgina Bernal

Lololololol im lucky I have so Okay one friend.............. That likes me 🤥😱

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Nayla Sengchan
Nayla Sengchan

This really hits me

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K.H.A.R Wade
K.H.A.R Wade

Who else is salty Kofi lost!

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Billy Bob
Billy Bob

This makes me wanna cry but I ain't no bitch like if you cried

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Ampwich
Ampwich

So hard to find people my age let alone make friends at all. And finding lvoe seems damn impossible. I just wanna die...is this all life is? Going to work and being alone? I have another like 70 uears of that crap?...

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misterexe hasstopped
misterexe hasstopped

I have some fake friends who my actual friend got rejected and they kicked out of the game

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Ryan Corrigan
Ryan Corrigan

#2 on trending for a reason. And yes, I am lonely too.

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oftedical
oftedical

Why is this 1 trending

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Goahead
Goahead

Due to cell phones and social media, we are more disconnected with other humans more than ever. Texting is different from talking to a human being. I think being lonely is one of the major contributors to socital violence such as mass shootings. These depressed socially isolated humans can't take it anymore and lash out at the outside world. I am sad that this is happening. And today's politically divided nation is making the matters worse.

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Paul Bujak
Paul Bujak

Fuck this.

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About Studies
About Studies

Thank you

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Ed Lopez
Ed Lopez

i am lonely.

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Frostlike
Frostlike

#1 ON TRENDING !!! Lets go!!! This ain't lonely anymore!

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Usama Nasir
Usama Nasir

Just brilliant! You made my thoughts clear. I know more of myself now. Thank you! ❤

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GamingJose
GamingJose

These videos are so much better without a lousy connection to a sponsor at the end.

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Kevein Kevin
Kevein Kevin

Good thing Im way too autistic to feel petty human emotions such as "lonliness"

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Jafuee
Jafuee

This video brought tears to my eyes. Thank you.

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Ben -the human
Ben -the human

Advantages of being an introvert: You like being lonely meaning you are rarely lonely, you are just alone, not lonely.

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Shakil Mahbub Hussain
Shakil Mahbub Hussain

This just might be the best video of this channel.

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小林八城
小林八城

Thanks, I'm not alone again 😊

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Pseudo Nguyen
Pseudo Nguyen

Let’s make a cult!

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Reinbow_slime I love mom
Reinbow_slime I love mom

Привет💜

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Jay
Jay

This comment section is now a venting area lol

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Halario
Halario

now I'm questioning if I'm in denial of being lonely ???

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brad Martin
brad Martin

As I watch this alone feeling alone

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CapriBea
CapriBea

This is number 1 on trending hhmmm.

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Daniel Pinto
Daniel Pinto

Kudos Kurzgesagt! When I think I've seen it all, you manage to surprise me. Please continue with the well researched, intelligent analysis of not only scientific but also humanistic and very relevant topics to our modern way of life. You bring a new perspective to the table. I'll be here watching as usual

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ShrekVonDinky
ShrekVonDinky

if this topic wouln't tear me up, then this background music certainly did it's job

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Laurel
Laurel

I feel personally attacked.

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Antimatterstudios
Antimatterstudios

I found this very ironic for how I have been feeling for the last while and then one of my favourite youtubers uploaads a video about it.

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jack89harrier
jack89harrier

Smash dislike for Loneliness ☺ Smash like for Suicide 🙃

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Mark Rehme
Mark Rehme

Its a day late and a dollar short for me.

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Oliver Pedraza
Oliver Pedraza

Hermoso video :'v Ojalá lo hubiera visto antes

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Die Putzfrau
Die Putzfrau

This video was posted before or?

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oober bear
oober bear

Wow this video was uploaded to the German channel a month ago

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DevilsPride666
DevilsPride666

People=shit

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myYT Acc
myYT Acc

Yo this shit hit deep like... woah.

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InfiniTea
InfiniTea

Who else was lonely on valentines. Help me get to 1,000 subs, so I can get a supporter creator code! It would help a lot!

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Foxxer Edits
Foxxer Edits

this got me in the feels

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ChargersFanSD
ChargersFanSD

Was teased at school for being a loner, am alone as an adult now as well, but couldn't be happier, I'm my own best friend, don't need no one else!!!

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Michael jackson
Michael jackson

fuck

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Jimmy Salas
Jimmy Salas

Thanks guys 🖤

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Andrey Cerda
Andrey Cerda

Follow me on insta @mr_guinea.pig

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G J
G J

Me

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Spongebob SquarePants
Spongebob SquarePants

Bold of you to assume that I have any friends

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Daimon Byl
Daimon Byl

Funnily enough I was doing some research into this a few months ago and it really is interesting

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César Pulido Aguilar
César Pulido Aguilar

Esto parece un proceso de reprogramación de ventas, creado por empresas para aumentar el consumo en masa. Al parecer sienten que hay menos compras porque la gente está más distraída con la tecnología y eso no les agrada.

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Ricky Gonzalez
Ricky Gonzalez

Where do people get these stats no one has ever asked me shit lmao

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Optimus Prime
Optimus Prime

#1 Trending

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Fiona O'Keefe
Fiona O'Keefe

When I’m alone lonely or depressed, I go online and shop! I just spend money on items that make me happy or I order pizza and sit in front of the tv in my pjs catching up on episodes of shows I never watched but like ok I’ll watch them now! Or I sleep, yes sleep the day and night away but truthfully it hurts more to wallow in self pity cuz there’s always someone out there around the world that’s suffering and in need! Sometimes you have to get off the couch and be active in volunteering or just lending a hand to help others, when you focus your energy on helping others the less time you have to sit around and feel sick sad and sorry!

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Bagel UwU
Bagel UwU

1 in trending at 11:20 pm

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thirsty cactus
thirsty cactus

#1 on trending,,,,, are y'all ok??? edit: oh fuck oh fuck i'm crying now

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Big Boss - Clash of Clans
Big Boss - Clash of Clans

2:30 *when you get caught in the storm on PUBG*

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Randy R
Randy R

We can thank technology for parts of this. It has made us further isolated an more stressed out. I am physically alone 90 to 95 percent of the time. But it was not like this at the many other places I have lived. Phoenix has been a hard place to break into. Thankfully I have learned how to be comfortable in my own body or I would go mad, or lose my sobriety. My career crashed 5 years ago an that made it worse. I am a friendly person but it is still hard. My making videos an trying to help others, helps me

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Ampwich
Ampwich

Nothing but work, church, and home for me....and everyone keeps to themselves or are too busy.... :(

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Unity
Unity

A mental state.

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Eli Morin
Eli Morin

Umm who wanna be friends

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Adnan Ashraf
Adnan Ashraf

This video being #1 trending right now shows how lonely people are 😞

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Eduardo Justi
Eduardo Justi

Watching this video while feeling lonely. 😅

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찬휘박
찬휘박

멋져!

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fft2020
fft2020

very good and insightfull video 1.3 million views on 1st day... oh dear

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Nadine Whittaker
Nadine Whittaker

Thank you for citing your sources😍🙏🏾

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MYG Gaming
MYG Gaming

I only have one friend. Literally.

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ARMINDER SINGH SAINI
ARMINDER SINGH SAINI

How can you not be lonely when all this world has to offer is loneliness. You give everything possibly you can to someone and still end up used for their selfish needs. How can you not be lonely when everyone is money and self oriented??

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Glenn Zaleski
Glenn Zaleski

Thanks for making this video it helps more than you think

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Truly Blessed
Truly Blessed

Anyone want to be friends? I have zero.

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Quantum Curiosity
Quantum Curiosity

so basically as a lonely fat fuck who smokes 3 packs a day, I should just go off myself, instead of waiting around

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오시영
오시영

자막 너무 감사합니다

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22Wideout AND HIDE YO W’s
22Wideout AND HIDE YO W’s

0:04 seconds in and I’m already triggered.

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Melissa Joy Nicdao
Melissa Joy Nicdao

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Brandon Pérez Pérez
Brandon Pérez Pérez

All my whole life explained with the most charming design. It says a lot that it's # 1 on trending on a Sunday night. Knowing that there is nothing more tender than a small dose of depression at night..

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i
i

Thank you.

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Raven Campbell
Raven Campbell

If it is also partially biological, then may it be worthwhile to develop a drug for the chemical side of that biological need, in order to at least break the cycle? Perhaps that would work better than most modern antidepressants, since it more directly attacks the cause and not the effects

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HushPuppy Clan
HushPuppy Clan

This isn't loneliness, this is just being socially awkward and shy.

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bolangbolong
bolangbolong

This is so sweet and sad, like if you want to be internet Friend with me 😄

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Kimberly Guerrero
Kimberly Guerrero

Wow this is #1 on trending KOOL👌🏼

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Abby
Abby

I've been lonely my entire life. I've only ever had a handful of friends, never been in a relationship, still a virgin, my best friend is my dogs and mom. I've learned to just distract myself with copious amounts of Netflix.

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Cheese
Cheese

Am I the only one who doesn’t have any social media account. No Facebook,instagram,Snapchat, no grinder not tinder and hell no no tick tock, only YouTube Damn it cheese don’t cry.

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Steve Bruce
Steve Bruce

Anyone looking for friends?

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ALI HADY CARAT
ALI HADY CARAT

Thank you

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bluELFsuma
bluELFsuma

A lot of this felt familiar, but not the conclusion. Shortened version: I accepted the idea of being alone for the rest of my life and am significantly more happy. Has this happened to anyone else? More detailed version: In my particular case, I was always somewhat attracted to seclusion. But, when I was a child, I did have friends. School friends, family friends, friends who were family... I was connected and involved with people. Then, we moved to another city, with another school. Predictably, I couldn't connect with any of the other children there. They had made their cliques, and were at that age where you don't really want to open up to "the new kid". I didn't see any of the non-school-friends either. I think it's because we moved from a populated city to a very rural area. It became too much work for my parents to transport us anywhere other than the grocery store. So we stopped seeing friends, unless there was a big event. For the first two or so years, I actively tried making friends at school. Nothing seemed to work, and I became rather depressed. As the video said, I started subconsciously isolating myself. This feeling lasted until my junior year of high school, where it climaxed. Something clicked, and I simply accepted that I didn't feel... _right..._ around other people. That I couldn't open up around them, properly. That I had always felt like this, to an extent. And I started feeling so much better. I worried less about the people around me. Less about what they thought of me. Funnily enough, this improved my social skills. I have become more confident in myself. I've even improved my work on my hobbies. I _physically_ feel better. All this, from thinking, "I don't think it's very likely that I'll ever have friends again. I don't think I'll ever fall in love with someone. I don't think I should ever have children, adopted or biological. I don't want any of those things." The idea of building my own family sounds horrible. That it would eat away at my being. That I would lose who I am. I finally found myself again. I don't want to lose her to this hypothetical world of forcing myself to be involved with others. And I wonder if someone else has felt this way, too. It must be illogical to assume not, and yet... it feels like I am a rare case.

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Amy
Amy

And that’s why I have food 🥘

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Jace Vlogs
Jace Vlogs

I’m actually lonely... 😔

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